Imagine that there is this minion within you wanting to control every decision you ever make and every opinion you ever have. That little minion’s name is Stubbornness. He usually likes to stick with his own opinion and never listen to others even when what he believes or says is not true. For example, one person could try to share their thoughts and knowledge but you just refuse to accept them because you believe in other ideas. This comes as a disadvantage for you as you’ll be grounded even more in your own little world.
In 2014 on Christmas break my best friend was trying to convince me to go ice skating. I didn’t know how to but she promised that she would teach me. Having my introverted side unleashed, I kept telling her that I don’t really want to. Also, I didn’t know how it was going to be and different scenes like me having to watch while the rest of the people had fun kept coming into my head. ended up going eventually and I’ve never had s much fun in a while. I even learned how to ice skate, all because I didn’t let my stubbornness get in the way. My best friend helped a lot too. She never gave up on me because she knew that I would have fun. She taught me to not be afraid to try new things and I’m always going to be grateful for that.
Moral of the story, don’t let stubbornness get in the way. I had to learn this the hard way but I was lucky because I had a great best friend who still pushes me to try new things. If you don’t try you’ll never know.
“Hope begins with the dark, the stubborn hope that if you just show up and try to do the right thing, the dawn will come. You wait and watch and work: you never give up”